About the Work
My work sits at the intersection of sexuality, power, identity, and cultural conditioning.
I have a PhD in Clinical Sexology, and my academic research explored how the subversion of traditional gender roles can enable women to reject oppressive scripts, reshape their sexual identities, and reclaim sexual autonomy. Specifically, I studied how learning and practising female domination can shape and change women’s experience of sexual satisfaction, sexual assertiveness, and sexual self-esteem, through a conscious engagement with power, agency, and self-authorship.
Our sexuality does not exist in a vacuum. It is shaped — often unconsciously — by cultural norms, religious narratives, gender expectations, and relational conditioning. Many women experience a loss of desire, confidence, and sexual agency because they have been forced to suppress their true selves in order to play along with scripts written for them by society.
Before my work became explicit, it was lived.
For many years, I was a professional ultra-endurance athlete, competing — and winning — in some of the world’s most extreme environments. I have coached athletes for extreme ultra-distance events since 2015, and still do, alongside my work in sexuality, power, and identity. Ultra-endurance is not only a physical pursuit — it is a direct confrontation with internalised limits, obedience to external expectations, and the stories we tell ourselves about what is possible.
I am also a certified Dominatrix. This embodied experience has profoundly informed my understanding of how power operates beyond theory. It has shown me how deeply transformative it can be to step outside prescribed roles and consciously choose how one relates to desire, boundaries, authority, and self-expression. For many women, this process becomes a gateway to reclaiming not only sexual autonomy, but a more integrated sense of self.
Earlier in my career, I spent over a decade in management consulting and entrepreneurship. I understand what it means to function in high-performance environments that often reward compliance and productivity — and what it can cost over time to remain in such environments. I also know what it takes to step away from externally imposed definitions of success and begin rewriting the script on one’s own terms.
At the core of my work is awareness.
I help people recognise the scripts they have been programmed with — cultural, relational, sexual — and understand how these scripts shape their choices, desires, relationships, and sense of identity. From there, we explore what it means to consciously decide which stories still serve us, and which scripts we should burn to start fresh.
My work is educational, reflective, and provocative.
I am not a psychologist or psychotherapist, and this is not therapy.
Because you are not broken.
You have been taught to adapt to systems and expectations that were never designed to liberate you. They were designed to regulate you and dim your light.
I work as a coach and guide, offering a space for inquiry, insight, and conscious re-writing of the script — for those who feel ready to live with greater clarity, autonomy, and integrity. This work is for people who sense that there is more available to them than the roles they have been assigned, and who are willing to look honestly at the forces that have shaped them.
This is not about becoming someone else.
It is about stepping into who you were meant to be.
This work tends to resonate with people who feel a quiet friction between who they are and the roles they have learned to inhabit — particularly around sexuality, relationships, power, and self-expression. It is for those who are curious rather than compliant, reflective rather than reactive, and willing to question the narratives that have shaped them.
I am fluent in Swedish and English. I accept clients who can speak English, Swedish, or Norwegian.
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